Welcome

We’re glad you’re here. After discovering that our husbands had a problem with sexual addiction, we felt shocked, depressed and outraged. Realizing our lives were falling apart, the question arose, “What can I do about this?” We are writing the book S.O.S. Survival Kit to answer that question because we couldn’t find the practical, realistic answers we needed at that time.

On this site, you can learn more about the book and register to be notified when it’s published. Check out our resources page to find helpful web sites, books and videos. On our FAQ page we answer some common questions about sexual addiction from the wife’s perspective. Check back each month for a new question. If you’ve got a question you’d like us to answer, please contact us.


We hope that our website will help you realize you are not alone.

About The Book

Since pornography has grown into a $10 billion a year business — bigger than the NFL, the NBA and Major League Baseball combined -- hundreds of thousands of women are seeking advice on what to do about their husbands’ clandestine cheating behaviors. S.O.S. Survival Kit gives readers immediate action steps to take in their marriages to unfaithful husbands. Readers learn how to

• combat the lies they hear
• evaluate the health of their sex lives
• tap into their intuitive sense of what is right
• hold on to their faith in God
• tell their husbands their true feelings
• set necessary boundaries and consequences
• know the difference between remorse and true repentance.

Unlike other books which are written to help the sex addict, S.O.S. Survival Kit helps the spouse of the sex addict, who is on a very painful, confusing and difficult path of her own. We were there - shocked, horrified and desperate. As we relate how we made the tough decisions necessary to have a good life, readers will see their options unfold and step out to make their own decisions.